Learn how to change your mind and transform your life from the inside out. Break the chains of your oldest patterns by mastering your mindset in 6 weeks.
Cycle I ~ Caring for Yourself in Relationship with an Addict
(begins 11/13)
DO YOU...
- find yourself stuck in an endless loop of unsatisfying relationships? and you just can't lower your bar any further without losing respect for yourself? guh.
- feel like you've tried so many different things to change things up in your relationships and nothing seems to stick ⏤ back in the old pattern within 6 months? or even less?
- at this point, question whether you can even have healthy, reciprocal, loving relationships? like what even are those?
- fantasize about when you get to the "other side" of this cycle you feel so stuck in, imagining how much better everything will be once you're "over there" (and in your new relationship)?
it's time to get to the root of your painful relationship patterns so you can have the love you desire (and deserve).
good news is...you don't have to do this alone.
JUST IMAGINE, MY DEAR...
- having real clarity about what you want in your relationships and the confidence that you have everything you need to call them in
- understanding your past with a new lens of awareness and self-compassion so you can finally release the old, painful stories you've been unconsciously telling yourself about yourself
- making peace with the painful relationships of your past and (gasp!) learning to be your own beloved ideal partner!
- learning the next level of self-love so you can cultivate more love, passion, and sensuality in your life
what would be possible if you chose to reclaim your agency,
become your own beloved, and cultivate the relationships you've
been dreaming about for so long?
um, everything.
it's time to get to the root of your painful relationship patterns so you can have the love you desire (and deserve).
good news is...you don't have to do this alone.
JUST IMAGINE, MY DEAR...
(I hear this all the time, y'all)
"i HATE TO ADMIT IT, BUT I guess I just don't really trust myself..."
("AND HOW COME EVERYONE ELSE SEEMS SO DAMN GOOD AT IT?")
You suffer from analysis paralysis, looking at an issue from every possible angle on repeat until you're exhausted and even more confused. You throw your hands up but continue to grind on it mentally, slowly draining all your energy.
You've signed up for other vision-support programs that are full of gorgeous resources but all start with the premise that you already have a clear vision — but that's what you were trying to figure out when you bought the program in the first place!
Everyone in your support system (and even a handful of strangers) has examined this with you and shared *their* advice. There are so many different options that you're now busy weighing other people's opinions instead of your own and even further away from your intuition.
IMAGINE WHAT IT'LL FEEL LIKE WHEN YOU'RE CLEAR
- Having the ability to call in a wildly fulfilling dream of yours and design your entire (yes, entire) life around it.
- Knowing that if an unexpected life crisis happened, you'd confidently make decisions stemming from your deepest values.
- Finally getting free from fear of not doing it right, and WAY more courage to be in aligned action.
- Taking ownership over your decisions, actions, and releasing stuckness from supporting other people's dreams over your own.
- Slowing down and still being wildly productive. But without the sacrifice, martyrdom, or victimhood...feeling the grace & ease.
I MEAN, I WANT TO MOVE FORWARD...BUT WHAT IF...???
On some level, you know it's time. But because you are stuck in the relentless pattern of questioning your thoughts, feelings, and actions you keep asking yourself...
"What if the parts of my life where I don't want change end up changing? What if I find out that I don’t want my partner/job...the things that already feel clear?"
"What if me changing hurts others — people I care about?"
"What happens if it doesn’t work for me? What if I just can’t get unstuck and can't change?"
"What if I make the wrong choice? Or the timing's bad? Will I be on the wrong track forever??"
"I have major money fears, so what if I spend the money (and the time) and I'm still confused?"
"What if what I want isn't even possible?"
I know that the journey to clarity on your biggest life decisions can be overwhelming. In a time when confusion is a given, guidance, structure, and proven tools of transformation are critical to get you to CLARITY.
This is exactly why I've FINALLY created this deeply transformative course (years in the making!)...
C L E A R
A healing journey to making your biggest life decisions
LIFE BEFORE C L E A R
- You don't have a vision — or if you do, you're not sure how to get there.
- You're so stuck in the life-sucking compare and despair spin cycle.
- Confusion is your new normal.
- You can't discern between the voices in your head — one is saying to do this, the other is saying something totally different. Which to trust?
- You're so stuck in painful, unconscious patterns and feel as if you can't find your way out.
...LIFE AFTER C L E A R
- You understand your deepest held values and desires at a new level.
- You know how to take real steps forward to design your life around those values.
- You know how to distinguish between your ego and your inner guide (those battling voices in your head/heart).
- All that unconscious gunk is being cleared out...you know how to slow down, tune in, and do the inner work.
- Your sense of purpose is so much clearer. Self-trust is becoming your natural way of being.
- OH, AND YOU'VE GOT CLARITY, CONFIDENCE, & COURAGE LIKE NEVER BEFORE. NBD.
how the journey will unfold...
This is a snapshot of the curriculum. I do like to leave room to intuitively respond to what the group needs most.
MODULE 1 // (Re)Connecting With Your Inner Guide
In weeks 1-3, I will guide you through various practices, total framework shifts, and teach you practical/magical tools to prep your soil for the deep dig. You'll learn how to:
- Truly hold space for yourself and your journey
- Redesign your relationship to confusion, vulnerability, and that big life change you're callin' in
- Slow down (so you can hear yourself) without sacrificing your productivity or ambition
- Discern between the fighting voices in your head & heart
- Ground and come back to planet earth (when you spin out)
- Get out of that nasty "ask/listen" loop and to trust your own intuition and act on that inner wisdom!
MODULE 2 // Mindset & Manifestation
In weeks 4-7, I will guide you through various practices, total framework shifts, and teach you practical/magical tools to prep your soil for the deep dig. You'll learn how to:
- Understand how you got here, into whatever pattern is sticking you
- Peel the layers back and get to the root of your most painful patterns
- Yank that root up from the source
- Plant new seeds aligned with the truth of you really are
- Learn the non-BS principles and practices behind manifestation and working with the energy of your mind
- And gain clarity on your truth, your deepest held values, so you can design your life around them
MODULE 3 // Learning to Love Up Your Emotions
In weeks 8-10, I will guide you through various practices, total framework shifts, and teach you practical/magical tools to prep your soil for the deep dig. You'll learn how to:
- Honor your emotions as valuable sources of divine information
- Stop running away, resisting, denying your emotional experiences
- Begin trusting your current emotional experiences and find new reverence for your past
- Discern between the fighting voices in your head & heart
- Release and let go of emotional wounds that are keeping you small
- Heal your deepest emotional triggers (for the long haul)
MODULE 4 // Integration
In weeks 8-10, I will guide you through various practices, total framework shifts, and teach you practical/magical tools to prep your soil for the deep dig. You'll learn how to:
Bonus 1 // Forever Access
Because this is the early stages of this particular program, when you sign up you will be grandmothered into permanent access as long as the course is alive and running, no matter what changes I make.
Bonus 2 // Altar to Clarity
A guide for designing, creating, and working with your own unique altar to clarity. You’ll get guidance, ideas, prompts and more. Altar veteran or altar newbie, you’ll love it.
Bonus 3 // Meditation Bundle
You’ll get the bundle of all of the guided meditations I’ve created over the years…and when I make new ones, I’ll share them with you! Topics like Sensuality, Loving Kindness, Letting Go, & so much more.
TRUE CLARITY COMES WITH SOME SERIOUS SUPPORT
My greatest growth has always come from rich support on individual and collective levels and in programs where there was a balance of direct guidance, accountability, community, and work at my own pace. Here are the details of the sacred container of support that I've designed for you.
Live Group Calls
You’ll have a chance to ask me your biggest burning questions during our bi-monthly live calls in the group. If you can't make a call, you can presubmit questions. If you miss a call, replays are always sent out within 24 hours!
Private Class Forum
You’ll be supported by a peer community inside a private forum/group where you can share questions, insights, wins, and irl struggles. You're not alone on your path, beloved.
Self-Study
You'll receive a weekly check-in email with additional guidance and support around the program. Every lesson is accompanied by homework assignments (I'm big on homework...I mean, you are your home! Who else gon' do the work?).
Just to be clear this is NOT a 1:1 coaching program. Yes, I believe in the power of individualized attention (and I'll do my best to support your journey in all the ways I can)...and the collective wisdom and compassion of the group is wildly TRANSFORMATIVE. In all of this you'll find your own rhythm.
YOU CAN DO THE COURSE FROM HOME, FROM ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD, AND ON YOUR SCHEDULE.
Do the work from the comfort of your couch or kitchen table, as long as you are connected to the interwebs! The program is completely digital so you can access it from anywhere through our private course portal. And you'll never miss a beat: you can go at your own pace and do the lessons on your time. Of course, I'll be there along the way to midwife you through and keep up momentum with our bi-weekly group check-ins and in the facebook group.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU SIGN UP...
1, 2, 3 ... GO!
1 // YOU TAKE THE LEAP
You’ll sign up (yay!), pick your payment plan (you’re worth it), and get all the course sign-in info sent to you via your Welcome Email within minutes!
2 // YOU GET THE GOODS
Your Welcome Email gives you access to the whole platform and all the available course materials. You’ll start with the Welcome Module and go from there!
3 // YOU DO THE WERK
Weekly emails will midwife you through the course and your healing journey along with 2 live group coaching calls per month. There are several avenues of support, and then the rest is up to you!
MOST OF US THINK THERE'LL BE A PERFECT TIME TO DO THIS KIND OF WORK.
THAT TIME IS NOW, HONEY.
Starting now with C L E A R will allow you to:
- Make those big life decisions before they make you.
- Learn how to be with your desires and declare your needs, guilt-friggin'-free.
- (Re)discover what's most important to YOU. Not who you were, who you ought to be, or who so-and-so says you should be. Your life is up to you.
- Have an entirely new, loving, trusting, thriving (um, and joyous) relationship with yourself. This will ripple out into all relationships in your life.
OR...
...YOU COULD WAIT.
YOU KNOW, JUST CROSS YOUR FINGERS AND HOPE IT (AKA YOUR LIFE, NBD) CHANGES SOMEHOW.
This is your chance to take responsibility for your life. To go with your own flow, not everyone else's. If you wait, in 6 months from now you could be in the exact same place.
Do you have another 6 months in you?
A year, maybe?
5 years?
Where will you draw the line?
What's the cost of not changing and getting C L E A R ?
WHO IS THIS FOR?
- You feel stagnant in your healing process. You’ve been doing the work but know there are deeper levels you need some guidance to access.
- You’re aware of the many thought/emotional/behavioral patterns you have and you’re ready to move that awareness into ACTION.
- You are tired of doing it alone and are craving support in your healing. (Or you're realizing your current support system needs an upgrade.)
- You know it's time to release old programs and limiting beliefs from your consciousness.
- You want to understand and communicate your emotions clearly, without shame or guilt.
- You feel curious, open, and willing to show up for yourself and your transformation.
- You desire the support of a community who is likewise tuned into growth and healing.
WHO IS THIS NOT FOR?
- You're looking for a quick fix. This is more a "become the awesome truth of who you really are over time" approach to healing.
- You hope to learn/grow by osmosis. This program is not passive...it will require you to show up.
- If you're honest with yourself, you have zero intention of slowing down. Inner work requires it. You def don't have to stop your life, but you will have to get more still to hear yourself.
- You aren’t ready to take responsibility for what you're creating. You gotta stop the blame game & giving your power away.
- You need a high level of individual support.
Beloved, it's so ok if this isn't for you. It doesn't mean you're not on your path. It means that you're choosing something else right now — so make sure you fully understand that choice and that it's yours (not someone else's choice for you).
WHAT YOU WANT IS NOT HARD.
EVEN THOUGH IT MIGHT SEEM LIKE IT IS.
Clarity isn't something you trip over and it doesn't fall out of the sky (if it does, it's likely someone else's clarity/vision...so keep your eyes open, sugar). It has to be cultivated. You have to MAKE ROOM for it. You have to believe it's possible. You have to believe that you deserve it.
There's likely a handful of things keeping you from the clear vision and fulfilling life you most desire. I've made it my business — literally, it's why I'm here on the planet — to support you on this journey.
When you heal the earth heals. We have work to do. Are you ready, my love? I am.
FAQS
How much time do I need to set aside for the course?
You can take this course at your own pace. You have lifetime access to the materials (as long as the course is up and runnin’)! However, if you want to take advantage of the 3 months of guided coaching, I recommend devoting at least 3 hours per week to the course. This includes the suggested daily practices.
Do you offer a guarantee?
Yep! I offer a 100% money back guarantee. I ask that you complete a specific amount of the course homework and send it to me. If after doing this work you are dissatisfied with the materials in any way, or you find that it’s not the right time, we will refund you. You have 30 days from when registration closes to request a refund. Full details are in the refund link at the bottom of this page.
How do you support students as they work through the content?
I offer six live Q&As during the 3-month course. These rich Q&As are your time to get individualized attention and group coaching. And in addition to that, I show up in the private facebook group to answer questions, give thought-provoking prompts, go live as I’m inspired to share, and giving you even more opportunities to connect and move through whatever is coming up. There’s also the option to upgrade to 2 additional 60-min private coaching sessions (which here, is less than the cost of 1 private coaching session with me).
How long do I have access to the course?
You have access to the course for the life of the program as long as it’s up and running! That means that you can retake the course with me whenever I offer it, and have access to any updated material that I include.
Can I go at my own pace with the work?
100%. You can absolutely go at your own pace with this program. You have access to the courses and materials (worksheets, guided meditations, etc) in the student portal. Every life group coaching will be recorded and posted the next day they happen in the student portal. If you can’t make it to all or any of the groups, you’ll be able to get that potent engagement through the replay — I’ve had many students tell me how beneficial it’s been to make time and rewatch the group coaching time.
Extra integration time may be needed to process the shifts and transformative guidance of this course. It’s different for everyone. You can skip a week and come back when you’re feeling ready. You can buy the course and come back to it when you are ready and have the time and space for it (forever access won’t always be a bonus!). Or you can join every week — whatever feels right to you. I’ll keep up momentum with a suggested pace, but you’ll find your groove.
Do I need any special kind of tools/software/apps/technology to participate?
Nerp! Just access to the internets. And a journal that you can carry around with you to write in and something to write with. I’ll host the live group coaching calls in Zoom — a free, web-based video platform — where you’ll just have to click on the link I send you to join. And every replay will be in the student portal. Easy peasy.
I won’t be able to attend all the sessions live/I don't use facebook, will I miss out on anything?
All good. All the live group coaching calls will be recorded and posted in the student portal for you to access at your convenience. Of course, there’s magic in joining live but you will absolutely be able to feel the container of group support even if you are experiencing the videos at a later time. And you can pre-submit questions to me so I can answer and you can get the teachings when you watch the replay. As for facebook — it’s an additional support tool, but not a critical part of the program.
What is the schedule for this program?
You’ll receive 12 weeks of email guidance midwifing you through the course at a suggested pace. You have lifetime access and can return again and again to any part of the work. Our LIVE group Q&As are currently alternating Sundays at 9:30am PT. Replays are always available within 24 hours.
Dana, I’ve been working on myself and have tried what feels like damn-near everything. How do I know this will work for me??
This work is unique and it will go DEEP if you let it. If you show up, do all the work, and engage with the weekly homework assignments and daily practices, you will receive exactly what you need from this. The extent and amount of the change (and clarity) you receive totally depends on your willingness, availability, and presence. This work works if you work it.
What if I have another question that isn't here?
No problemo! Just email me at dana@danabalicki.com and ask away! I’ll get back to you within 24 hours.
OH, HEY!
I'M DANA BALICKI.
I help people like you, ever-evolving souls looking for clarity, confidence, and courage, so they can live a life of purpose and deep connection.
Years ago (*cough*eleven*cough*), I was burnt out and confused about how to align my life with what was most important to me, until I started slowing down and listening to my soul, my body, my truth.
I asked the universe for support and received it in the form of amazing humxns (Rha Goddess & JLove Calderon, David Gershon & Gail Straub just to name a few) who taught me (and held me through) the transformational work I now teach.
Now I live in the beautiful California desert where I get to be warm (key soul desire), do the work I'm here on the planet to do, surrounded by rich, loving relationships, and all with ease and grace.
I can’t wait to help you do it too (the whole connect-with-your-soul thing...not the crazy-desert-living thing...I mean, unless that's the dream!).
